In Her Own Words
About Her
I am unlike any woman you have or will likely ever meet. I am outgoing, introspective, intuitive, confident, compassionate, loyal and irreverent with a quick sense of humor. I am a great cook and smarter than the average bear. I also have no problem asking for directions when my GPS goes stupid.I am upfront and believe in open communication and total honesty. I try not to blame others but accept the responsibility and consequences for my own actions and expect others to do the same. I try to be a better person every day, learn from my mistakes, and try not to repeat them. I try to make everyone I meet smile or laugh and I can always seem to find some humor in every day events and have some fun with it.
About Her Ideal Match
I like a man who is honest. Manipulative or deceitful is not honest. Hard to imagine how a relationship could last that is based on such behavior. Outright lying will end my interest instantly. I also like men who take initiative, and men who return phone calls and reply to emails. If you do not return my call or email, I will not call/email again. When you don't, what I hear you saying is that you are not interested. It is also rude. A man who answers an email with a terse three line quickie suggests that he is inarticulate. That he artificially suppresses phone or email communication seems to be contradictory to one of the most foundational aspects of a successful relationship: open, honest communication. I like men who answer the questions I ask instead of ignoring them or lying about themselves. I like men who truly want equality in our relationship. That means not insisting on equality only when it suits them, or using double standards. When I ask a man for a date, he is my guest and I should pay. It is impolite for him to demand to pay half. If he wants to pay for something, he should do the asking. Then I'd be his guest.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Nigeria | |
Location: |
Umuahia (Aba), Abia, Nigeria | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
30 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Igbo | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
United States; Puerto Rico; Austria; Finland; France; Germany; Italy | ||
Location: |
Europe; United States; Puerto Rico | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 173cm (5' 8.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
English; Other | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Forgiveness; Honesty; Kindness |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Country & Western; Reggae |